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¡°Forgiving is the biggest discipline. Through forgiving others, I receive forgiveness. Everyday is a new day. One mustn¡¯t turn ones back on the new day, being stuck in a rut. If one unties oneself and becomes free, the world, too, opens wide.¡±
The Buddhist Monk Rev. Pubjeong, who lives deep in the mountains of Gangwon Province and gives two public dharma talks a year, followed up his April discussion of forgiveness with another discussion on the topic Sunday. In his autumn dharma talk held at Gilsang Temple in Seoul¡¯s Seongbuk-dong amidst the fall foliage and cosmos flowers, Pubjeong stressed, ¡°We must free ourselves of the poison stuck in our hearts through forgiveness.¡± April was a time when social tension had grown sharp as a result of the presidential impeachment and general election. As if to strike the bamboo clapper once more for a mundane world that had yet to forgive or harmonize going into autumn, the venerated monk chose to devote both his lectures, which were given only twice a year, to the subject of ¡°forgiveness.¡±
Pubjeong started off his lecture by quoting Thich Nhat Hanh, who said, ¡°If you are a poet, you will see clearly that there is a cloud floating in this sheet of paper,¡± and stressed, ¡°Like how the clouds sprinkle rain, and through that rain the trees grow, and with those trees paper is made, all of existence is interconnected; independent existence cannot be found anywhere.¡±
Pubjeong asked, ¡°Last April, too, I spoke of forgiveness, but how well have you put forgiveness into practice?¡± After this, he recounted an anecdote from the recently published collect of conversations by the Dalai Lama, ¡°The Wisdom Of Forgiveness.¡± After about 20 years, the Dalai Lama had met a fellow monk who spent 18 years in a Chinese prison and was forced to issue self-criticisms because he stayed behind in Tibet after the Dalai Lama had fled to India. The Dalai Lama, seeing that the Tibetan monk had not changed a bit despite his many hardships over the years, asked, ¡°Wasn¡¯t there a time when you were afraid?¡± The monk replied, ¡°I was most afraid that I might come to hate the Chinese, that I might lose my sense of mercy.¡± Pubjeong said, ¡°If I were in that position, could I have had such thoughts? Perhaps not, I¡¯m ashamed to say.¡± He stressed, ¡°We who live upon the land must learn the spirit of mercy and forgiveness in a land in which we accept all.¡±
Pubjeong ended his lecture by saying, ¡°Humans, no matter who they are, must stand before their own sunsets when the time comes. Before that, they must unleash themselves from that which binds them and become free... I hope you open up and live in this world that has opened for us such a fine autumn day.¡±
(Kim Han-su, hansu@chosun.com )
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